Monday, January 14, 2013

Things that my future husband should know about me

A new blog theme:
THINGS THAT MY FUTURE HUSBAND SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME

This will be a daily (or at least a couple times a week) blog discussing things that my future husband (whomever he may turn out to be ;) ) should/needs to know about me ... Some will be serious, some silly. Some spontaneous, some in reflection of what is going on that day. Some will be just short statements, others will be longer entries, stories even. But ALL will be TRUE ... And they will appear in no certain order (meaning the first is not necessarily the most important and the last is not necessarily the least important -they  are all important!) Stay tuned for more

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#1: January 14, 2013:
I do not expect you to like all of the same things that I do - except football! You MUST like football - American football that is (as if there is any other kind that matters - ha!). But you don't have to like the same team necessarily. Rivalries could be fun! Just have respect for my team - Penn State. And accept that  if it comes down to it - I Will choose Joe Paterno over you! <3 Point of this being: you don't have to have the same interests, passions, hobbies, etc., just as long as you have some!

#2: January 15, 2013:
When given the choice for dinner, I will almost always chose breakfast, Italian, and dessert - in that order. Breakfast pizza and chocolate milk is the best choice for a meal, obviously, - all three! If you want to score brownie points - please note this down in your little "To make Kate happy" notebook. :)

#3: January 16, 2013:
All or Nothing -
When I say I love you, I mean it in everything. When I say I love you, you are the only one that I love in that way. When I say I love you, I love with all of my heart - not just part of it.
When you say that you love me, I expect all of the above to be returned to me.

#4: January 17, 2013:
I hate mornings. 9/10 times I'm grumpy when i wake up until I have coffee, 3/10 times still grumpy after coffee. It usually takes me a while to wake up. On the rare occasion that I am wide awake right away, I'll be extremely tired - almost zombie mode - later that day.

#5: January 18, 2013:
I am one of the most clumsiest people that you will ever know. I will fall on the ice, butt first. I will trip over my own feet. I will walk into walls, doors, and occasionally other people. I have been known to fall both up and down stairs - yes, you read that right. I will drop things - sometimes breaking them, unfortunately. But knock on wood - do it now! Quick! - I have only had one concussion (playing volleyball) and one broken bone (little toe - banging it against the table really, really hard). Although I have had several sprains, but those don't count!

#6: January 19, 2013:
I will ALWAYS be honest with you, and I expect the same from you - doesn't matter if it will hurt me or make me happy or what. Dishonesty hurts more than honesty and Dishonest people are my least favorite people.

#7: January 20, 2013:
I LOVE giving presents. Most of the time I get more joy out of giving gifts than I do receiving them. And I usually put a lot of thought into them, probably more than is needed sometimes. This, of course, does not mean that you don't have to give me any. It only means to expect lots of them.

#8: January 21, 2013:
Versions of my perfect day:
1. Outside. We wake up and have a huge breakfast. Drive to the football stadium for an awesome game in which our team wins. After the game we get bacon cheeseburgers (or pizza) and milkshakes. Then we find a little back road, park your truck and lie in the back staring at the stars.
2. Inside: We wake up to a big breakfast and just lie around the house, reading and watching movies all day. Your arms wrapped around me, whispering in my ear.

#9: January 22, 2013:
Joe Paterno will always be one of my heroes and one of my biggest inspirations. I will always look up to him and defend him. (RIP Joe Pa, 1/22/2012)

#10: January 23, 2013:
I love country music, well, all kinds of music just about. Real music at least, not rap. But most of the time I'll have country on. You don't have to like country (but it's a bonus) but you have to at least tolerate it, if only because I play it all the time.

7 comments:

  1. Well, I guess this counts me out of the running for your future husband. Damn!

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    1. Sorry, Esme. I probably should have mentioned future husband has to be male too?

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    2. It's too late. I'll just go back to my non-football-liking boyfriend, and we'll not-like-football together. Good thing liking football isn't a requirement for your friends! Also, good thing being male isn't a requirement for your friends?

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  2. Yes - neither liking football or being male is a requirement for being my friend :) I have several female, non football liking friends.

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    1. Friends liking Harry Potter is a whole other story.

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